Couples Retreats

3-day Making Sense of Us Couples Retreat | Reconnect, Understand, and Deepen Your Love

We all long for a heartfelt connection with our partners—to be truly seen and loved. Yet, in our quest for closeness, we often miss each other entirely. Unaware of our own fears and motivations, we ask for love in ways that can push our partners away rather than bring them closer.

Without realizing it, we build walls to protect ourselves from wounds we don’t even know we carry. The harder we fight to be understood, the more pain and frustration we create, leading to patterns of resentment and disconnection. But there is another way.

Love can be expressed with compassion, kindness, and understanding. We are not bound to the same old cycles. When we deepen our self-awareness, accept ourselves, and learn to understand our partner’s fears and needs, we create a new level of connection. Instead of reacting automatically, we gain the power to choose how we respond—to our partners and to life.

The Enneagram: A Map to Understanding

Using the Enneagram as a guide, we gain a fresh perspective on ourselves and our partners. This powerful tool illuminates our unconscious patterns, allowing us to approach our relationship with greater empathy and clarity. It fosters self-awareness, deepens mutual understanding, and opens the door to a more intimate and fulfilling connection.

What to Expect

Many couples worry that attending a retreat means airing personal issues in front of others. Rest assured—this is not couples therapy. You will never be asked to share anything private in the group. Instead, our Couples Enneagram Retreats are small, immersive learning experiences. We provide expert guidance and insights, followed by private time for you and your partner to reflect and apply what you’ve learned. All discussions and exercises happen between the two of you, in a safe and supportive setting.
Please note that this retreat is not designed for relationships in crisis. It is for couples who want to strengthen their bond, gain deeper understanding, and invest in an even healthier, happier partnership.

Topics You’ll Explore Together:

• How our personalities shape the way we see the world
• What works in our relationship, and where we get stuck
• How to nurture and support each other effectively
• Caring for yourself within the relationship
• Understanding and expressing love in ways that truly land
• Why we sometimes feel unheard, and how to bridge that gap
• What triggers us, and how to navigate those moments with care

2025 Retreat Dates & Details

Done for the year! The first 2026 retreat will be announced in the new year.

Cost:
TBC.
This includes accommodation, select meals, refreshments, Enneagram training material, and the Integrative9 Couples Report.
Spaces are limited and secured with a 50% deposit.

Join us for a transformative weekend of discovery, connection, and renewal.

 Feel free to look at the previous retreat details here. To be updated for 2026.

Contact us for further information